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September 8th, 2010
School Days
September 7th, 2010
Competition or Creation?
September 6th, 2010
Happy Birthday, Dear Jennifer
September 5th, 2010
Mickey Dee
September 4th, 2010
Chaos Is Optional!
September 3rd, 2010
Life Is a Party!
September 2nd, 2010
Sugar, Sugar Everywhere, but Not a Bite I'll Eat!
September 1st, 2010
Sugar in the Morning, Sugar in the Evening...
August 31st, 2010
A "Right" in the Park
August 30th, 2010
I Can't Have Just One...Thank Goodness!
August 29th, 2010
More Than a Haircut
August 28th, 2010
Story Time
August 27th, 2010
The Missing Hors-d'oeuvre
August 26th, 2010
The Male in the Refrigerator
August 25th, 2010
True or False, Fact or Fiction?
August 24th, 2010
Hide or Seek?
August 23rd, 2010
More Than a Swim, Part II
August 22nd, 2010
More Than a Swim
August 21st, 2010
The Lurking Shadow of Grief
August 20th, 2010
The Power in a Teardrop
August 19th, 2010
What You Need to "No!"
August 18th, 2010
Our Inside Scoop!
August 17th, 2010
"Myth-Understandings" of the Past
August 16th, 2010
A Taste of Serenity
August 15th, 2010
A Dark Pair of Glasses
August 14th, 2010
Power-less or Power-full?
August 13th, 2010
What Do You ReallyWant to Do?
August 12th, 2010
Listening to Your Loneliness
August 11th, 2010
The Magic Pill!
August 10th, 2010
Mentally Tongue-Tied
August 9th, 2010
From Pain to Passion
August 8th, 2010
The Look of Love
August 7th, 2010
Creating a Clear Connection
August 6th, 2010
"Shoulding" All Over Myself!
August 5th, 2010
Shush! Listen Carefully! Your Wisdom Is Trying to Tell You Something!
August 4th, 2010
"First Thing in the Morning" Thoughts
August 3rd, 2010
Expressing Your Dissatisfaction Satisfactorily!
August 2nd, 2010
The Call of Addiction
August 1st, 2010
A Life Matters
July 31st, 2010
What I Wish someone Had Known How to Teach Me...a Long time Ago
July 30th, 2010
Some Like It Hot!
July 29th, 2010
What Can You Learn from a Ham?
July 28th, 2010
Feeling the Voice of Truth!
July 27th, 2010
Detaching with Your Heart Wide Open!
July 26th, 2010
Finding Your Way Back
July 25th, 2010
Bloom Time?
July 24th, 2010
The Uniqueness of Our Gifts
July 23rd, 2010
From Heroin to Heroine/Hero
July 22nd, 2010
I Know You Love Me, Pompa
July 21st, 2010
Guess What I Am NotSaying or Else!
July 20th, 2010
Waiting for More Information
July 19th, 2010
Love Makes Everything Possible
July 18th, 2010
Party with a Heart
July 17th, 2010
Family Conversations
July 16th, 2010
Artificial Stimulants
July 15th, 2010
The Tears of a Man
July 14th, 2010
Heart-Break...Becoming Me Again
July 13th, 2010
Living Our Lives Out Loud!
July 12th, 2010
Daring To Be Different
July 11th, 2010
Creating New Habits
July 10th, 2010
The Value of Your Life
July 9th, 2010
Why Do I Do What I Do?
July 8th, 2010
How to Know...When to Say "No!"
July 7th, 2010
A Lucky Day Indeed!
July 6th, 2010
Companioning
July 5th, 2010
A "You" Turn
July 4th, 2010
Independence Day
July 3rd, 2010
Sharing What You See
July 2nd, 2010
Raising Awareness
July 1st, 2010
Creating Our Sweetest Dreams
June 30th, 2010
Creating Your Worst Nightmare
June 29th, 2010
A Brave Face
June 28th, 2010
The Gift of Listening in a Connected Way
June 27th, 2010
Emulating Scarlett
June 26th, 2010
Closing the Gap
June 25th, 2010
Happy Birthday, Chris!
June 24th, 2010
Father's Day...A Few Days Late
June 23rd, 2010
Honor the Addictive Behavior
June 22nd, 2010
The Creation of Marriage
June 21st, 2010
What Did You Do Over Your Summer Vacation?
June 20th, 2010
No Swimming BeforeDinner
June 19th, 2010
A Precious Bundle of Fur
June 18th, 2010
The Crossroads of a Conversation
June 17th, 2010
A Garage $ale for Your Mind!
June 16th, 2010
Woe, Woe, Woe your Boat!
June 15th, 2010
Saying I Love You and Good-bye
June 14th, 2010
Romance 101
June 13th, 2010
A Brand-New World
June 12th, 2010
A Hole in One...Flower Pot!
June 11th, 2010
The Perception of Powerlessness
June 10th, 2010
Breaking Through the Denial
June 9th, 2010
Trusting the Plan You Cannot See
June 8th, 2010
The Hero Within Us All
June 7th, 2010
The Empty Nest
June 6th, 2010
Today I Did Nothing...and It Was Really Something!
June 5th, 2010
When Will It Happen Again?
June 4th, 2010
What About Me?
June 3rd, 2010
If I Don't Look, It Won't Hurt!
June 2nd, 2010
Creation
June 1st, 2010
Living Is Easy?
May 31st, 2010
Grazing
May 30th, 2010
Memorial Day Is More Than a Picnic
May 29th, 2010
Whose Life Is It, Anyway?
May 28th, 2010
To Myself with Love
May 27th, 2010
Retraining Our Ears
May 26th, 2010
Practicing to Be Happy!
May 25th, 2010
Sugar!
May 24th, 2010
Reaching for Our Tears
May 23rd, 2010
Marie and Paul
May 22nd, 2010
A Life of Weeds...or Flowers?
May 21st, 2010
"Double D"
May 20th, 2010
Creating the World We Live In
May 19th, 2010
"Sun"Day or Else
May 18th, 2010
Becoming All That We Can Be
May 17th, 2010
"Bored" of Directors
May 16th, 2010
A Lesson from the Microwave
May 15th, 2010
Trusting Life's Wisdom
May 14th, 2010
An Act of Bravery
May 13th, 2010
Celebrating Our Uniqueness
May 12th, 2010
Helping Versus Enabling
May 11th, 2010
The Face of Addiction?
May 10th, 2010
Shhh! Wisdom Speaking!
May 9th, 2010
The Sticky Side of Addiction
May 8th, 2010
Happy Almost Mother's Day
May 7th, 2010
The Need to Be Noticed
May 6th, 2010
Blind(?) Trust
May 5th, 2010
Unexpected News
May 4th, 2010
Leaving the Scene
May 3rd, 2010
"J-Walking"
May 2nd, 2010
A-Parent Drinking
May 1st, 2010
I Want a Cookie...Now!
April 30th, 2010
Happy Birthday, Katy!
April 29th, 2010
Curiosity May Have Killed a Cat, but It Sure Can Be Helpful to the Rest of Us!
April 28th, 2010
Inviting New Possibilities into Your Life
April 27th, 2010
What You "Know" Can Hurt You!
April 26th, 2010
What We Numb Can Hurt Us!
April 25th, 2010
Reaping the Benefits of Your Plan
April 24th, 2010
Environmental Commitment
April 23rd, 2010
"Happy" Hours
April 22nd, 2010
A Miracle, Part II
April 21st, 2010
Good-bye, Darling
April 20th, 2010
A Miracle
April 19th, 2010
Making Requests
April 18th, 2010
I Ought to Be Better by Now!
April 17th, 2010
Recognizing the Call of Addiction
April 16th, 2010
A Short Hors-d'oeuvre
April 15th, 2010
Happy Tax Day!
April 14th, 2010
Happy Birthday, Daddy
April 13th, 2010
A Paragraph of Attention
April 12th, 2010
Daddy's Big Girl
April 11th, 2010
Why Are You Taking Me So Personally?
April 10th, 2010
Suffering in the Silence
April 9th, 2010
Our Spiritual Assignment in Recovery
April 8th, 2010
Just Show Up!
April 7th, 2010
The High Cost of Addiction
April 6th, 2010
I Am Responsible
April 5th, 2010
Letting It In
April 4th, 2010
What We Don't Know Can Hurt Us!
April 3rd, 2010
Oh, Let Me Go!
April 2nd, 2010
Bringing Home the Bacon
April 1st, 2010
April Fool's Day
March 31st, 2010
The Miracle of Choice
March 30th, 2010
The Fantasy to Addiction and the Addiction to Fantasy
March 29th, 2010
Three Dogs, Two People, and One Dead Battery!
March 28th, 2010
The Importance of Rewarding Yourself
March 27th, 2010
Listening All of the Way Through
March 26th, 2010
Midlife Growing Spurts
March 25th, 2010
How Do You Help Someone Who Is Hurting?
March 24th, 2010
Look at Your Life and See What You Need
March 23rd, 2010
The Bloom of the Rose
March 22nd, 2010
Resistance
March 21st, 2010
Hand-Me-Downs
March 20th, 2010
Me and My Shadow
March 19th, 2010
Dreams Do Come True
March 18th, 2010
The Sensitivity of the Child
March 17th, 2010
You Can't Judge a Book by Its Cover!
March 16th, 2010
We Are Here All of the Time
March 15th, 2010
Building a Highway to New Healthy Habits
March 14th, 2010
Appropriate or Inappropriate? That Is My Question!
March 13th, 2010
A Practice in "Not Knowing"
March 12th, 2010
Labor Pains
March 11th, 2010
What Do You Do When No One Is Looking?
March 10th, 2010
A Sad Heart
March 9th, 2010
The Rewards of Sobriety
March 8th, 2010
The Cost of Addiction
March 7th, 2010
Warning! Addictive Moods Can Be Blinding!
March 6th, 2010
Renovation of My Spirit
March 5th, 2010
Lessons Learned in a Leaky Basement
March 4th, 2010
Dancing with Life
March 3rd, 2010
The Power of Curiosity
March 2nd, 2010
Healing Old Wounds
March 1st, 2010
The Bluebird of Happiness
February 28th, 2010
A New Definition of "Selfish"
February 27th, 2010
Addiction to Seduction
February 26th, 2010
Daddy's Gift
February 25th, 2010
The Promise of Spring
February 24th, 2010
Temper Tantrum...An Addiction in Disguise
February 23rd, 2010
The "Dis-ease" of Fear
February 22nd, 2010
Feeling Unappreciated
February 21st, 2010
Into Me I See...(A New Look at Intimacy)
February 20th, 2010
A Rose Is a Rose Is a Rose
February 19th, 2010
What Is It Like to Be Free?
February 18th, 2010
A Whole New "Lens" on Life
February 17th, 2010
The Declaration of a Lifetime
February 16th, 2010
I'm "Outta" Here!
February 15th, 2010
Appreciate the Pull
February 14th, 2010
Happy Valentine's Day...with Love!
February 13th, 2010
The Truth Only Hurts for a Little While
February 12th, 2010
Gifts of Love
February 11th, 2010
Isn't It Wonderful How Terrible It Is?
February 10th, 2010
The Hidden Danger of Expectations
February 9th, 2010
Dangerous Green Vans
February 8th, 2010
Victim Makeover
February 7th, 2010
To Be or Not to Be the Victim?
February 6th, 2010
Downsized-Up
February 5th, 2010
Writing Our Own Story
February 4th, 2010
Secondary Addictions
February 3rd, 2010
The Missing Peace
February 2nd, 2010
Make a Joyful Noise
February 1st, 2010
Where Did I Put Me?
January 31st, 2010
The Pharmacy in Our Heads
January 30th, 2010
Addiction?
January 29th, 2010
Longing for Love
January 28th, 2010
The Magic in the Dark
January 27th, 2010
Know Your Enemy
January 26th, 2010
The White Horse Story
January 25th, 2010
Speaking into the Face of Fear
January 24th, 2010
Destination Fear
January 23rd, 2010
Danger! Hunger Ahead!
January 22nd, 2010
The Integrity of Our Anger
January 21st, 2010
Listening for Loneliness
January 20th, 2010
H.A.L.T.
January 19th, 2010
Trusting the Silence
January 18th, 2010
The Honor of Your Presence Is Requested
January 17th, 2010
Taking the Time to Connect
January 16th, 2010
The Integrity of Our Dissatisfaction
January 15th, 2010
When Life Hurts
January 14th, 2010
How to Get Your Wiggle Back!
January 13th, 2010
A New View, At Last!
January 12th, 2010
When Is It Helpful to Refresh Your "Screen"?
January 11th, 2010
Refresh Your Screen!
January 10th, 2010
Making Chocolate Chip Cookies
January 9th, 2010
Listen to What You Are Saying!
January 8th, 2010
Being in Relationship Differently
January 7th, 2010
Noticing the Fear
January 6th, 2010
Relationship Reality
January 5th, 2010
The Experience of Your Life
January 4th, 2010
"Not, Not"...Who's There?
January 3rd, 2010
The "J" Word
January 2nd, 2010
How Can I Make a Difference?
January 1st, 2010
New Beginnings...or Once Again?
December 31st, 2009
New Year's "Eve-r"
December 30th, 2009
I'll Have Just one, Just This Once!"
December 29th, 2009
The Miracle of Connection
December 28th, 2009
Becoming More Comfortable with Discomfort
December 27th, 2009
Life Calling
December 26th, 2009
The Heart Remembers
December 25th, 2009
A Day of Birth!
December 24th, 2009
If It's the Season to Be Jolly...Then Why Do I Feel So Sad?
December 23rd, 2009
Connecting with Family
December 22nd, 2009
The Real Connection
December 21st, 2009
Who Am I That I Am Feeling This?
December 20th, 2009
Listen Carefully! Your Emotions Are Speaking!
December 19th, 2009
Learning to Be with Your Emotions
December 18th, 2009
"Emotions, Emotions" Everywhere...and not a Drop to Drink (Eat, Work, etc.)!
December 17th, 2009
"S.I.P."...New and Improved!
December 16th, 2009
"S.I.P."
December 15th, 2009
What Do You Do When You Think You Want What You Know You Really Don't Want?
December 14th, 2009
Patterns of Possibility
December 13th, 2009
Examining the Past for a New Future
December 12th, 2009
Happy(?) Holidays
December 11th, 2009
Turning Confusion into Curiosity
December 10th, 2009
A Formula for Identifyying Our Feelings
December 9th, 2009
Different Points of View
December 8th, 2009
What If No One Calls?
December 7th, 2009
Tangled Lights and a Mended Heart
December 6th, 2009
Raising Your Awareness of Yourself
December 5th, 2009
Life Signals...Stop! Look! Listen!
December 4th, 2009
The Stories Inside of Our Emotions
December 3rd, 2009
The Voice of Our Emotions
December 2nd, 2009
Discover the Quiet Stirrings Within
December 1st, 2009
Our Body's Internal Navigation System
November 30th, 2009
This Journey's End and the Beginning of the Next....
November 29th, 2009
The Other Side of the "Knot"
November 28th, 2009
Lead with Your Life
November 27th, 2009
The "Impossible" Dream
November 26th, 2009
A Cultural Thing...What Does that Mean for Our Children?
November 25th, 2009
The Life in the File Drawer
November 24th, 2009
Fall Is in the Air...and in the Walls!!!
November 23rd, 2009
Ever Use a Cell Phone as a Bottle Opener?
November 22nd, 2009
Thanks-Giving Everyday
November 21st, 2009
When It Rains It May Pour!
November 20th, 2009
Home for the Holidays
November 19th, 2009
Eating in the Dark
November 18th, 2009
A Slice of Heaven on Earth
November 17th, 2009
Hanging On for Dear Life
November 16th, 2009
"People-Repellent"
November 15th, 2009
The High Cost of Control
November 14th, 2009
The Power of Choice
November 13th, 2009
Choosing What Is Best for Yourself
November 12th, 2009
Red Flags
November 11th, 2009
Making New Choices
November 10th, 2009
Mother, May I?
November 9th, 2009
Hiding Hurt
November 8th, 2009
Mr.or Ms.Fix-It
November 7th, 2009
A Critical Ear
November 6th, 2009
Parents and Children...of Any Age...The Journey Home
November 5th, 2009
Moving Our Ears from Our Heads to Our Hearts!
November 4th, 2009
Broken Pots or Broken Hearts?
November 3rd, 2009
Sounds of Connection
November 2nd, 2009
"How Am I Doing?"
November 1st, 2009
Confusion "Rains"!
October 31st, 2009
Happy Halloween!
October 30th, 2009
Psychic or Good Listener?
October 29th, 2009
A Truly Intimate Moment
October 28th, 2009
The "Droppers"
October 27th, 2009
Why Is It So Difficult to Say "Great Job"?
October 26th, 2009
The Drama of Your Life
October 25th, 2009
Listening to Others Can Give You Your Life
October 24th, 2009
A Hearing Aid for the Heart
October 23rd, 2009
Confrontation...What It Really Means!
October 22nd, 2009
What Is It We Want...Really?
October 21st, 2009
Hurry,Hurry,Hurry...I am Going Nowhere Fast!
October 20th, 2009
Every Child
October 19th, 2009
Dis-ease to Please...The Yes-Man!
October 18th, 2009
The Hors-d'oeuvre Fairy
October 17th, 2009
Old Habits (Ruts) of the Married and Familiar!
October 16th, 2009
Who Really Made Me Feel This Way?
October 15th, 2009
Superman
October 14th, 2009
Perfectly Imperfect!
October 13th, 2009
Why Don't You Listen to Me?
October 12th, 2009
Addiction Calling
October 11th, 2009
A Change of Plans, Ready or Not!
October 10th, 2009
Seeing Red!
October 9th, 2009
How Am I Training You to Treat Me?
October 8th, 2009
The Value of a Car
October 7th, 2009
Overwhelm
October 6th, 2009
What do You Do with a "Whoops!" Moment?
October 5th, 2009
Hidden Treasures, Garage Sale Style!
October 4th, 2009
What We "Know" Can Hurt Us!
October 3rd, 2009
The Day I Will Always Remember
October 2nd, 2009
What Do You Really, Really Want?
October 1st, 2009
A Visit from the "Boogie Man"
September 30th, 2009
Rediscovering Your Self-Expression
September 29th, 2009
After You Know
September 28th, 2009
The Day When You Know
September 27th, 2009
The Night Before I Know
September 26th, 2009
When Daddy Dies
September 25th, 2009
The Art of the Open-ended Question
September 24th, 2009
Think It Over
September 23rd, 2009
Breaking an "Addictive" Mood
September 22nd, 2009
You "Made" Me Feel So...?
September 21st, 2009
Good-bye Summer, Hello Fall
September 20th, 2009
What Do You Do When You Get Stuck?
September 19th, 2009
Someday Never Comes
September 18th, 2009
The Power of Remorse
September 17th, 2009
The Angel of Hope
September 16th, 2009
Missing Connections
September 15th, 2009
Waiting
September 14th, 2009
Happy Birthday to Me!
September 13th, 2009
Passionately Ever After
September 12th, 2009
What Do You "Know" from a "No"?
September 11th, 2009
The Legacy of Horror
September 10th, 2009
Disconnected!
September 9th, 2009
Getting Out of My Own Way
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May we look beyond the outside, deep into a person's heart and soul, to all that which truly matters... Nan Shaw